Become A Crossdresser - Transgender Tips For The Woman Inside

Question: How do i become a crossdresser?

(Posted by: GMTA on 2008-09-01 18:34:59)

I'm about to turn 14 and i want to start crossdressing, I live in Australia and i need some tips. like shopping, what to start, how to do things. lol etc. Oh and i want to keep it from my family. Thanks.

Posted by: nagol014 on 2008-09-02, 10:05:32

Hey man. I understand what you are going through. Don't listen to people putting you down and saying you are too young. Your at the age where i started wanting to crossdress. It is perfectly normal. As for hiding it from you parents, i did that to. It depends on your own opinion of how you think your parents will react. Now for shopping tips! My favorite is underwear because it is the most femanine. Try all sorts of kinds. Thongs, panties, etc. You can by them yourself but if you are not comfy with that find a friend that can help you out, best would be a friend that is a girl. Bras are also great! Many female clothes stores will get guys fit for bras! Its true! I also recommend dresses, skirts, cute tops, try panty hoes if you want! And if you have small feat shoes are good to. Thrift stores are great places to buy this stuff. I do not know what stores you have in australia, but i'm sure you have some. Always remmember to be yourself no matter your age or sexual orientation. Do NOT EVER listen to judgemental people. Find friends that will accept and help you. I really hope i helped you out. I wish you the best! ps. For all the crossdressers posting that this boy is to young, i ask you what age you started? Did you tell your parents? Why are you sinking to the level of people judging you for the way you dress by judging a boy for being to young? PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH.

Posted by: mo j on 2008-09-01, 18:37:27

You cant hide that lifestyle too long, especially if u live at home

Posted by: ca1hollister on 2008-09-01, 18:37:45

Shop at a &f. jk.

Posted by: evolllracer on 2008-09-01, 18:38:22

You just where clothes of the opposite sex... if i understand crossdress correctly and you cant really hide the way you dress from your family

Posted by: Stephanie F on 2008-09-01, 18:38:40

Secrets from your family will only get you into trouble. You are only 14 and you are still of age. Talk to them. They will love you no matter what. They may not love what you want to do, but they will always love you.

Posted by: laziboi75 on 2008-09-01, 18:38:47

First try stealling some clothes from your parents or buy some yourself but the main issue is your only 14... plz ask yourself what ppl would think of you and why you want to mess your life up by looking really stupid and ugly in another genders clothes?!?

Posted by: Shae G on 2008-09-01, 18:40:13

Wait until you turn 18, figure out what type of style you want. It's usually good to mimick your favorite celebs. Then just start dressing to your preference. It will be hard to hide this from your family if you are 14, due to the fact that you don't purchase your own clothing with your own money. If you do it now your mom is bound to find out. As appose to you waiting until you are 18 you have a little more freedom, and you can move out the house if your family goes haywire.

Posted by: Aven on 2008-09-01, 18:40:42

At 14 it'll be extremely hard to keep it from your family. Online shopping is out if you wanna hide it well (online shopping is best source for special sizes especially in shoes). I would recommend going to walmart or some other relatively cheap store and just start with one or two items like a girls t-shirt or jeans. Be subtle in your choices to begin. Once your over 18 you can go crazy but take it easy for now.

Posted by: Luke M on 2008-09-01, 18:41:40

14 year old crossdressing you got problems. and I am here to help. Buy a wig (order online if you can) dresses use your mums if you have to. shoes can be easy enough to buy from shops ( If you don't mind embrassament) Lip stick and make up. buy it or use your mums. (best to buy theses things online and be the first one waiting for the postman) how to keep it from your family. i can't help you with that. Wait for them to leave or lock your room. do it in the middle of the night.

Posted by: Couture x on 2008-09-01, 18:45:13

You can't really hide that from your family...seriously.

Posted by: rachelle_inhighheels on 2008-09-01, 20:22:24

First off, at your age - WHY would you want to even CONSIDER becoming a crossdresser...? Is there something drastically wrong with your life as a teeny bopper male..? At your age, you shoulod be out there chasing other things.. Obviously your desire to learn more about crossdrressing is what you've gleaned from on here,, I do suggest that you forget all notions of crossdressing, especially being so young and living at home..Should your parents discover what you're intending to do, I can assure you, they will not be overly pleased.. Be careful because all may not work out to your liking... Rachelle In High Heels

Posted by: miyukiflora on 2008-09-02, 12:05:14

I find it tiresom to keep it from my family but i dont want to tell just always make sure your alone and juge wat you can do by how much time you have alone i know its wrong but using your mums clothes or your sisters can do the trick. some people dont like that idear but clothes are clothes and are ment to be worn. after that you may find a liking to cirtain types of clothes and then you can buy them hsbc do an account for under 18s where you get a solo card which is chip and pin which means you can also pay 4 things over the net

Posted by: J R on 2008-09-03, 17:18:07

You should seriously consider telling your folks. If they do love you, they should be understanding and supportive, even if they fundamentally disagree with what you do. Besides, at 14, it will be difficult at best to hide that from your family and your mom and/ or sister(s) can be a great help in getting you going on shopping, makeup, etc. Whatever you decide to do with your family, don't go sneaking other people's clothes without permission. It is dishonest and disrespectful. You should also make friends with some good female peers who would be understanding of your desire to crossdress. They often times love making a guy over into a girl. Good luck in your crossdressing.