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Question: Does anyone know why some men like tranny's and cross-dressers yet they say they are not gay? (Posted by: Isn't she lovely! on 2009-03-12 12:49:58) I've caught my bf and father of my baby emailing these people on craigslist and also watching tranny porn. I've confronted him but he says that he is just curious. He never talks dirty to me yet on those emails he seemed so dirty and he seemed to really be into it. I see it and don't believe it. He told me that he's straight and that he doesn't want to physically be with them but he likes to watch it. It doesn't make sense to me. In the emails he talks about meeting up with these people he wants to do down on them It's just so strange. Does this mean he's secretely gay? He says he wants me and that he loves me wants to spend his life with me and that I'm enough but why does he look around for these people if that's true?? Can someone help me understand why? Jo123: Are you talking by personal experience? He likes to watch MEN have sex and MEN dressed like women yet it has nothing to do with his sexual preference? |
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Posted by: Vell g on 2009-03-12, 13:09:20 OK, you might not like what I have to say. If it walks like a duck and quacks... it's a duck. He is gay. If he is contacting these men, he is gay. Curiosity is looking at porn, he went past that when he got in contact with these men. He is 'cheating' on you if he is having internet sex with dudes. I'm a gay man and I have a wonderful Husband. I would never contact another man via email and talk dirty. That is a deal breaker right there. Then its a man? You deserve so much more. You got to let that go and move on. You are to smart for that. Sorry, I hate that he did that to you. |
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Posted by: WheelKnee on 2009-03-12, 12:53:43 It's a fetish he might be developing. |
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Posted by: zellparis on 2009-03-12, 12:54:02 Your boy friend is a sick closet f.a.g but i could be a real man for you baby |
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Posted by: Jo123 on 2009-03-12, 12:55:12 Why do some girls like wearing butch clothes, wearing trousers, or mens hats? Why do goths dress like goths? Why do some people like wearing bright colours, whilst others just wear black? Why do some women get their belly-buttons peirced/ Its coz they feel comfortable in it, they have fun in it, and they want to. It has no bearing on sexual preferance!! |
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Posted by: STEVEN K on 2009-03-12, 12:56:12 Just be careful, as of now it is just a curiosity thing, but you need to watch and make sure it doesnt become a reality. but other than that you cant suffocate him, if he is going to watch tranny porn he is going to watch tranny porn, but honestly, like for real, i dont think i would want to be with someone who liked tranny porn, but thats just me. |
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Posted by: Angharad E on 2009-03-12, 12:59:44 They might not be gay, they could be a closet bi. and if u are bi, TS's are perfect, boobs and a penis! plus, TS's clearly make more of an effort in make up and dressing (they have to to pass) thus making them very attractive, i shouldn't worry too much, he's probably just curious. |
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Posted by: NailPolishLover on 2009-03-12, 13:07:07 Maybe he is just curious, or developing into a fetish. |
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Posted by: T.o.n.y on 2009-03-12, 13:08:17 I honestly wouldn't worry. If he was gay and wanted to have sex with men, he would already be doing it by now. He's probably just curious as to what is out there and maybe he does have a little attraction to men but so what. Don't worry. Everyone has their own fetishes. e.g. I'm a gay man but sometimes I like to watch straight porn even tho, I would never have sex with a woman. Good Luck. |
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Posted by: Sickxually Inactive on 2009-03-12, 13:15:18 You cannot define people sexuality by considering what they like to watch. So if a man like to watch lesbian porn, does that makes him gay too? no! |
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Posted by: JIMK on 2009-03-12, 19:04:01 In a way youre being nosy . But he is also not taking a look at his sexual interests . He may care for you , but he loves them trannie girls - |
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Posted by: main ball on 2009-03-13, 15:47:01 From personal experience, looking at ladys on tranny porn and seeing them all made up and submissive can turn a guy on. talking dirty to porno types or escorts on craigs would do the same id say. but then this guy has created a child with you..what you have is real, what he's doing in his spare time is FANTASIZING ABOUT A FETISH. you shouldn't be snooping on him but now you have be open and communicative about it.... i'd guess if u give him 1-2 peggings or help him with some buttplug play , he'll then have been there and done that with the fetish (you will probably enjoy the pegging more than him) and remain a good partner and parent. and if by small chance he doesn't and he becomes totally gay, then maybe he will move on from you, you will find someone more your own style, but he will be a good parent still and respect you for treating him respectfully. |
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