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Question: A question for cross dressers? (Posted by: Olivia on 2009-11-20 19:08:13) I understand that you do it because you feel inside like you are the other sex. what do you mean by that? can you try your best to describe the feeling of being in the wrong body? |
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Posted by: Noname on 2009-11-20, 19:15:34 Incorrect assumption. Gender expression, and gender identity are completely separate. Most cross dressers are men who identify as Men, they do Not want to be women. The word itself "cross-dressing " implies that they are dressing opposite of their gender Identity. A transsexual (male to female)person dresses as their true self when they wear woman's clothing. There is a Huge difference between gender play, and actually feeling like you are in the wrong body. |
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Posted by: pj on 2009-11-20, 19:21:16 You aren't talking about cross dressers, dear...you are talking about transsexuals. there is a world of difference. cross dressers are people who enjoy dressing in the clothing of the opposite gender. transsexuals are peole born of one gender but with sexual characteristics of the other. personally i have never felt like i was born in the "wrong body "...this is the body i came with so..it's the right one. unfortuately, my brain was wired, genderwise, in the opposite direction. i feel like i was born female. period. i have never felt male...never in my life. from my earliest memories i insisted i WAS a girl...not that i wanted to be one, or i wanted to dress like one....i believed, and still do, that i was born a girl. to understand this best...you need only look inside yourself. is it your vagina that makes you feel female? is it your breasts? or is it just something you intrensically know? you knew you were a girl before you knew that little boys usually had a penis...you knew you were a girl before you knew you'd ever develop breasts....it's just something we all, or at least most of us, know...we know it early and we know it completely.....for transsexuals...we don't have a "female side ", we're not two spirited, or wanderers on the gender continuem....we have a fixed address and it's where the brain is...which is the opposite of where the body is. i hope some of this makes sense. much love and hope. pj |
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Posted by: Autumn Summers on 2009-11-20, 19:21:44 Ok I will try to be serious but it will come out funny, Like Sahniah Twain says Man, I feel like a woman, There's a feminine aspect to my personality that I need to express. It comes as a mood or feeling, and when I get that urge I need to express it. Its kind of like a hobby, or a habit, like if you smoke, when you need a cig, you light up. or if you feel like going for a walk, you do it. I am happy to be a man, but there are times when I want to feel like a girl, and dress up. I am jealous, because you do have more versatility in your wardrobes, and you are freer to let yourself go, men are more inhibited, and as such we regiment ourselves in image, but as a crossdresser, we have that safety of disassociating ourself from our maleness when we go en femme. I hope this clears up some of the mystery. |
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Posted by: paul c on 2009-11-20, 23:43:46 I wear womens clothing because i feel good doing it, and it is exciting...... kinda the idea of being caught being a turn on to me as well although my ex wife knows about it as well as a few others. it definately is not that i feel like i was born in te wrong body or anything... |
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