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Question for the UK transgendered community regarding fashion. (male to female)?
I work in the fashion industry and we've recently set up a business that offers bargain price ladies fashion accessories. We think that there is a niche market in the transgender community that we could exploit.First are there any popular magazines out there that are aimed at male to female transgender people where we could advertise?Also, how do you feel about buying ladies clothes and accessories in shops? What are the problems, if any? Would you prefer to do it online? Any thoughts would be really helpful. Thanks in advance.All good answers, so I'll put it to the vote.
What do these slang terms mean in the gay and transgendered community?
A twinkA bearA dairy queenA zipper clubPnP....??
Do you think there is a prostitution problem in the transgendered community?
There seems to be alote around.
Why is there so much division among the transgendered community?
This is a question I've been pondering for a while now, based on my personal experience with not only some of the answers I see on Yahoo Answers, but in real life as well.I am a crossdresser transvestite. While I rarely dress up fully as a woman, I often dress in female clothes because I enjoy the " feminine" expression it gives me. Like most crossdressers, I am male identified, heterosexual, still like being a man and my masculine qualities, and have a very good dating life.For a while now I've been involved in a transgender support group where all transgendered identities and expressions are welcomed and supported, from crossdressing to androgyny to genderqueer to transexualism and everywhere in between. The facilitators of the support group I attend are MTF and FTM transsexuals, both fully transitioned, and have been extremely welcoming and supportive of not just me but everybody else who was came to the meetings. While this isn't always the case, I have seen a lot of division and factioning among the transgendered community on Yahoo Answers, other internet pages, and in real life as well.One of biggest divsions I've seen is how many transsexuals will try to draw a sharp distinction between themselves and the rest of the trans community, some going as far as saying that transsexuals are not part of the transgendered community. I have also seen that some have extreme hostility towards crossdressers transvestites in particular. I am not letting fellow crossdressers transvestites off the hook either, because I have seen just as many hostile and divisive comments made by them towards transsexuals and the rest of the trans community as well.Case in point is an answer recently posted dealing with how God views transgendered issues. While there were a lot of diverse answers on there, one transwoman used Deuteronomy 22 5 as a way of implying that crossdressing trasvestism is sinful but other evidence in the Bible that being a transsexual isn't. One other transwoman went as far as blasting every other person with a transgender identity but a transsexual who is earnestly seeking SRS as an abomination to God. Of course they are entitled to their opinions, but it disheartens me to see all of this. As a Christian myself, I am well aware of Deuteronomy 22 5 in particular as well as a slew of other passages that can be used for and against transgender issues. I also know that taking a legalistic approach to the Mosiac laws, not just Deuteronomy 22 5, is largely impractical. Otherwise, every woman who wears jeans would be considered a sinner because they were originally a mans garment, just as much of a man wearing a skirt even though skirts were at one time a very acceptable male garmet . The same goes for a person wearing a cotton rayon shirt would be a sinner because the Deuteronomy also decries wearing clothing of mixed fabrics as a sin. You can see the question and answers here answers.yahoo.com question index ylt AjjIwyE.DcLSYKIonBshHjMjzKIX ylv 3?qid 20081112082726AA50EopAnyway, back to my point. I tend to follow the concept of that transgender, and gender identity in general, is a broad spectrum that covers a wide range of gender identities expressions and is by no means a " one size fits all" or you're either a male gender or female gender and no in between. Even in cisgendered people, every women has masculine qualities to her just as a man will have some feminine qualities. This is supported by the APA as well as many other mental health professionals.I believe that gender identity is hard wired into each and every one of us. Most of the time it's a good match. In the case of transsexuals, it is such as mismatch that there is a need to medically transition for a better quality of life. In other people, their gender identity can be more shades of gray and color to where it leads one to gravitate towards an expression that is more or less different from their birth sex but they don't feel the need to transition. Of course I realize that every transgender identity has issues that are unique to itself, and every person with gender identity issues is going to be different from the next.What I would love to see is for trans people to start seeing some of the common features and struggles each trans person has and to get past what identity is more the right way, medically verified, God accepted, etc. United we stand and divided we fall.I would like to hear opinions from anybody with a transgender identity or who is familiar with trans issues on how the trans community can come together and focus more on our common traits, struggles, and interests rather than the differences that cause division and hostility. While I don't consider any thoughful answer to be right or wrong, I intend to give the best answer to somebody who has the best idea of how the trans community can move past all the infighting amongst each other and come together as a diverse anThe last sentence got cut off. It should read as " diverse and strong group" .Dalevil, I totally agree that it's sometimes human nature. I don't see the problem with good natured teasing meant for humor.It is still okay for trans people to have diverse opinions on trans issues and what constitutes being trans. The big thing is how we can strengthen the common bond and issues that face trans people.
A question for the transgendered community.?
So, being in music I come into contact with a lot of gay men and lesbians, but rarely do I meet transgendered men and women. My question may seem rather naive, but I'd prefer to ask it here than embarrass myself in front of someone due to my ignorance. So my question is Does the gender you wish you were impact who you're sexually attracted to? For example should I assume that a man who desires to be a woman is attracted to men because he wishes to be a woman or should I assume he's still attracted to women? Are there lesbian transgendered women or gay transgendered men?I know this will sound really stupid to most people, but I honestly don't understand transgendered people. I'm trying to understand your feelings in hopes of being able to empathize with you as much as I do with the gay and lesbian community. Thank you umm Bonnie that didn't answer my question...at all lolThank you dj
Why are gay people often rude to/ignorant of the transgendered community?
First of all I'm transgendered, and not all LGB people are rude ignorant of us. Many are open minded, and that's one of the reasons I respect them.Many, many times gay people on this site have made wild claims that transsexuals are just homosexuals in such deep denial that they change their sex to be accepted. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Science has proven that sexual orientation and gender identity are completely different, and all you have to back yourselves up with is outrageous claims.I don't know why LGB people act this way, and I don't know what makes them think it is true.In fact, even bisexuals are also supposedly " in denial" about their " homosexuality." While not trying to cause an argument here, I simply want to know why homosexuals think we transgender transsexuals are denying our sexual orientation. you gays who are saying I'm making false accusations, I was meaning to emphasize the word 'some.'
Is There an organization that helps the transgendered community specifically m2f tg acquire breast implants?
I am a 28 year old unemployed transgenderist who has been unsuccessful in finding a job since early may when I lost the one I had do to lack of work to do, I do not qualify for unemployment benefits as the job only lasted 3 Weeks. I have wanted this since I was 18 just didn't have the nerve until now. I could use any help I can get. I just want to know is there an organization that helps in these circumstances All I have found so far are organizations that help women get implants and a couple who help the f 2 m transsexuals, they can get full funding.
In what specific ways could the Christian Churches minister to the homosexual and transgendered community?
Not only gays and lesbians themselves, but many professional people who deal with homosexuals, believe that very frequently the Chruch tends to reject the gay or lesbian person. H. Kimball Jones, a Methodist minister and counselor says, in his book " Toward a Christian Understanding of the Homosexual" " There are untold thousands of homosexuals in America today who are forced to live secret lives, forced to live in constant doubt and fear, lest they be discovered and labled as outcasts of society...Their sexual anomaly has made them potential criminals in the eyes of the law and sinners in the eyes of the Church. The Church for the most part has made no attempt to understand them along with the rest of society, it has viewed them with great contempt, closing its doors to them, failing to recognize them as children of God" 12 13 . In light of all this, HOW should the Church minister to the homosexual community?
Any one in the transgendered community think..........?
Would a talk show on network tv to educate the general population and provide support to others be a good idea?I my self want to be the one to do the show, I would be the hose myself. I am a transgenderist myself and feel with the help of outher transgendered indivuals I could verry well increase suport. it would cover every thing from the different terms to the problems we have in the work place. you know as a way to posibly get more tg friendly work places. I'm talking a show that is 100% tg no non tg influence what so ever.
How come everytime i ask this question it gets removed. i am asking the transgendered community?
what makes people have sex changes Why do you feel the need. I am not being abusive i s was a lesbian 14 years i was raised by drag queens. but i always wondered what makes you decide to take the drastic steps to change ur gender.everytime i ask this question 3rd time now some one reports abuse and they remove it. i think ur silly to because i am sure i am not the only one who wonders. this the bisexual. transgendered gay and lesbian spot. so answer me what clicks in ur head to take such drastic measures i am interested just one answer with out some idiot reporting abuse. with the racist and gay bashing questions i have seen on here give me a breaklove all of u who answered just interested had to know. i know that feeling like you r in the wrong body has to drive them mad. but God is good maybe they should understand that he created us in his image and should appreciate their life he would never leave or forsake them. i pray for them cause i think that is the devil working hard on them. they should pray
Does anyone know of any online dating/match sites for the transgendered community?
I know about alt.com ... any others out there, specifically transgender friendly? And if you're trying to hit on me, forget it ... I'm asking for a submissive friend of mine.
Why are the Yahoo avatars not accommodating to the transgendered community? Shouldn't they have special icons?
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